To the Malay,during your marriage ceremony did you include the adat bersanding beside the kenduri?

in Kota Kinabalu bersanding would cost you RM 4000

to crash why not you show your million dollar ring in your avatar so that all of us can view it.
Special Request ni

It is not a must. For a shy, crowd phobic and private person like me, i opted not to have any bersanding on my wedding day.

My wedding was extremely private, only family members and closest friend (people who matters most to me) were invited. I didnt invite old classmates, colleagues or relatives. What matters is i was surrounded by people who truly loves me on that day.

not married yet
but there will be two functions
saturday - nikah
sunday- bersanding - the price is way much more then rm 4000

bersanding with frog cost RM 000

Yes, MOST will . and yes it is expensive but it is worth it.after all ..it is a big day!


Mine not yet. maybe within 1-2 years time. i've just finished with my pre-engagement ceremony ...was...well..hehehe..i got the first ring

EDIT : Elo, DARLING ..don't have a million dollar ring! it is just a normal average gold +platinum ring. pre -engagement . didn't marry a dato' or tan sri..i'm going to marry MY perfect man :) the man that matter not the ring dear. there's nothing to show, just good news to share with my friends aka you and others

Most Malays would carry out the adat bersanding during their weddings..

But I don't think that there's an actual cost for a sanding ceremony in a particular place or state, because there are many variable costs for that particular event. The bigger your budget is, the bigger the cost will be.

hy frog..definitely wanna bersanding wif u..hahaha!!