Moving to leeds?

I am thinking about moving to leeds. Some of my family live there and I would be set up with a job and somewhere nice to live. I wouldnt say that im really unhappy at home at the minute (Ireland) but I know I probably could be happier, what stops me from leaving is that I have a wonderful boyfriend who I love very much and think I may be with for the remainder of my days if I stay, but he isnt prepared to leave with me, which is understandable. What would you do???

Has he ever been to Leeds?
I'm sure once he sees the local nightclubs, he'll want to move here like a shot!!

On a more serious note, you need to follow your own heart.
Personally, I would stay with my boyfriend, but everyone is different.
You could set up a home for you and your boyfriend?
Or even go on a weekend break to Leeds ( with your boyfriend ).
I won't deny, there is some very rough areas of Leeds - and a lot of stereotypical comments regarding Leeds, which could make him feel a little intimidated or even frightened.
However, at the same time, there is some very nice areas of Leeds, which in the future, could be more than suitable for setting up a family home!!

Good Luck whatever you choose.

you need to follow your heart, it sounds like you love your fella so ask yourself- will i regret the move in years to come- will i be able to have a good relationship in the future with my current fella always on my mind,

in my humble opinion stay with your fella visit your family as often as you can and who knows he may change his mind when he sees what a fantastic place Leeds is

hope this helps