Boyfriend going to las vegas for a bachlor party?

my boyfriend is going to las vegas for 4 nights for his friends bachlor party. what are the odds that he will cheat on me !! i really want to know what people say. he said they will gamble some but mostly party. i don't know that i can trust him there what do you think ? be honest...

Give the guy a brake! Are you trying to control his life already?
Your not even married. What if you where going to Vegas for 4 days? Would you cheat on him? If you did would you tell him? If he was going on business would you be concerned?
If he was staying at work an extra 2 hours everyday would you check up on him? If someone is going to cheat you won't find out anyway. If he does I'm sure hes not going to comeback and say "Hey babe, I did this hot stripper in Vegas, it was so cool!" So just relax, trust him, tell him to "have the best time ever, but if you do cheat and I find out, don't come back!" So don't just 'reluctantly let him go' he's a man he will do what he wants.

You need to trust him. If he loves you enough he won't cheat. You can't stop someone from cheating, the only person that has control over that is your significant other. If you nag or complain about it, you may eventually push him away.

Besides, what is a relationship if you can't trust?

just trust him let him know you trust him

He will likely hit up a strip club or two. Do you consider a lap dance cheating?

Seriously though, If you guys have a good relationship, what do you have to worry about? Don't you trust the guy? If not, maybe you should rethink the whole thing. I am married and went to Vegas with my buddies for 4 days. My wife did not have a shred of mis trust. We know that neither one of us would ever cheat on each other. But, realistically, there is a ton of eye candy in Vegas. I admit, I did take a gander here and there and chatted with a few members of the opposite, but nothing beyond that. But hey that's me.

If it's of any consolation, i would hate it if my bf was planning on doing that. But my bf's never given me any reason in the past not to trust him, so i would probably reluctantly let him go. ALthough...you never know what could go down in Vegas, so actually it would be a tough call, cos even if he isn't planning on cheating, the surroundings he's in could pressure him into it and make it easier to do so than he realizes. I dont know, i've never been to Vegas...but i dont have a good feeling about it. If he really really wants to go, I guess you dont have a choice but to trust him, and make it clear what you expect from him...like, no lap dances or whatever or anything beyond that nature obviously. Definitely let him know how you feel, it's your right as a girlfriend to voice your concerns if you dont want to lose him because sometimes, no matter how loyal they intend to be, it may just be too hard to resist. ANd that is the sad truth.

I'd say the odds are 10-1 ...

Come on, I know you're concerned about his fidelity, but asking a group of total strangers if a guy they know nothing about will cheat on his girlfriend?

Most people who come to Vegas are looking to party, drink, gamble ... not cheat on their significant others. Heck, they can do that at home if they really want to ... and so will he.

How much money will he be throwing around while he's there? The reason I ask is that girls in Vegas only want a guy who is going to be spending a lot of money on them.

Put it this way, if he's going to be on economy mode and just going to strip clubs and gambling at the lowest minimum tables with his buddies, and staying at not one of the best hotels (not the Wynn, Bellagio, Venetian, Mandalay) you have nothing to worry about. Girls won't want him and he won't be able to cheat even cheat on you even if he really wanted to.

On the contrary, if he is planning to get VIP tables and bottle service at the popular clubs (which costs $400 per bottle) and having a table full of Grey Goose and Red Bull, then girls will want him and you should be worried.

All in all, you should trust him. But, you really have absolutely nothing to worry about unless he's planning on throwing a lot of $$$ around because Vegas girls won't want him and he won't be tempted or have options.

You have worry anxiety, which is common when you know he's going to Vegas, Sin City for his bachelor party. Let me assure you, if you know he's a decent, loyal and trustworthy guy, there will be no problem. The worst that may happen is he and his buddies will get drunk, gamble, party all night, maybe visit a strip club or two and pass out. In that order. Then when it's all over and they're hung over, they'll eat, drink and gamble some more, until it's time to go home. That's all there is to it.